Sabtu, 18 Februari 2012

Role of Parents for Early Education

19/02/2012
As a container for "Creating a new man" or in other words as a bring new people into the world it is the nature of charge educate. Since childhood, starting from the time of birth have been taught to know life and the world, trained, mentored and guided so that it  consciously or not, the family had filled the child's personality. Parents are not planned to inculcate the habits  inherited from ancestors and other influences that masyarakat.Anak accept receipt of the power sugestion,be happy even if he was not aware of and know in certainly the intent and purpose of the suggestions given by the parents. Habits and behaviors desired by children actually invested, so it was obvious which one is allowed and where that should not be done by the way, the child will bring childs.
Withs also influence wherever his family even though he had begun to think even further. the greater the child's expanding influence until finally the whole environment, whether local markets, mountainous, forests, rivers, towns, villages, beaches and so affect whole life, behavior and psychology. It will not influence disappear even at the time of the children have left environment.
Role  father and the mother is crucial, it was his parents who holds the responsibility of the whole family. It is they who determine the where the family will be taken, what color will be given in family. Before you can be responsible for themselves, children are still highly dependent, still require supplies, how to act on something,  still thinking of her parents, were mostly still replicate to  what is done by parents. Thus in the life family between the father and mother should not be seen fighting in front of the children who will make the child hesitated in the act, which is  will be followed and which will be followed by him, so that the child is confused in determine the options and draw their own conclusions according to the flow of thought.
Father  as head of the family have become very nature is responsible for family welfare, ranging from food, clothing, shelter, education, health and so forth so that the days of the child will be more much to be with the mother (for mother who did not become a career woman). Mother that contain, provide breast milk, nurturing, almost every second any time, be that most of the life of the child is dependent on the mother.
For  both parents would be the sole formation of the initial character responsibility that can not be abandoned. Do not be sad and regret later after the child's behavior was not great but in line with expectations, because of negligence in providing care, a forgotten love. any character as the child is not regardless of the influence of parents. That's how most of the country advanced childbearing outside marriage by caregivers and responsibilities answer is only one parent, of course we will be able to predict the behavior of the next generation.
For  we are only concerned with career would be reconstructed back our minds that we are working tirelessly and tired just for children as heirs descendants. Money is not everything but could become a major concern for character formation and child's personality. Thus it can be realized how important the role of the family as the foundation stone of the pattern formation of the child's personality, educational institutions are providing content to live alone, will set its own shape and color by the children themselves, according to the abilities, strength and creativity in a child's growth and development over up.